To effectively reduce bullying requires shifting to a powerfully positive approach that emphasizes the positive norms held by the majority of youth and empowers young people with the skills necessary to effectively step in to help if they witness hurtful behavior, stop themselves from being hurtful and take steps to make things right if they are, and be self-confident and respond with positive power if someone is hurtful to them.

Embrace Civility in the Digital Age promotes a 21st Century approach to address bullying and youth risk in the digital age.  This approach promotes positive norms, increases effective skills and resiliency, and encourages young people to be helpful allies who positively intervene when they witness peers being hurt or at risk. Join our Facebook Page.

My objectives are to develop and disseminate powerful positive approaches to promote positive youth relations by:

  • Helping young people gain greater self-confidence and resilience to reduce the potential they will be treated badly and increase their effectiveness in responding.
  • Encourage those young people who are on a path to leadership to become positive leaders who promote acceptance of differences and positive intervention, rather than engaging in hurtful behavior to achieve dominance.
  • Encourage young people who witness hurtful behavior to be Helpful Allies who step in to help by reaching out, saying stop, ore reporting serious concerns.
  • Increase the effectiveness of adults in intervening in ways that foster resilience, restoration, and intervention.
  • Increase the capacity of adults, including educators, youth development professionals, and parents/guardians, in providing essential support to those young people who are more frequently targeted, including those who are also aggressive.

Information about Resources on this Site

Powerfully Promoting Positive Youth Relations in Schools

Under development are resources for professional development of staff. These resources will consist of written materials and short videos. After staff watch each video, they will be provided with questions to discuss with students and a report form. This report form should be bought to the staff meeting to support a quality discussion. Positive Relations @ School (& Elsewhere) is my new book that provides guidance to schools on how to reduce bullying and harassment and limit its harmful effects in a manner that will both effectively address the well-being of students and assist schools from avoiding litigation and civil rights enforcement actions.


Powerful Positive Strategies to Support Your Bullied Child. This book for parents is available NOW!

Powerfully Promoting Positive Youth Relations in Youth Organizations

Embrace Civility in the Digital Age proudly announces the availability of new, research-based resources for Youth Organizations: Powerfully Promoting Positive Youth Relations in Youth Organizations. Visit the Youth Organizations page to preview and find out more about these resources!

Expert Services

Nancy Willard is available for workshops and can also provide webinars for professional development. Nancy also provides legal research, mediation, and settlement assistance to attorneys working for school districts or student plaintiffs.


Nancy’s resources to address digital safety are found here. This work has been “back-benched” while Nancy has been working on new resources to promote positive relations.

Informational Documents

Over the years, Nancy Willard has written numerous reports and articles. You can find these resources on this page.


  • Embrace Civility Blog
  • Twitter
  • Embrace Civility Discussion Group
Image. Wikipedia Commons. Created by Lumax Art at: http://www.lumaxart.com/

Comments are closed.